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On Oct. 9, “Thotiana” rapper Blueface asked his over 1 million followers on the platform if they first served food to their children or the children’s father. He specified that he was referring to instances where the kids’ biological father was present, not a stepfather.
In a follow-up tweet, MILF Music founder claimed only Black women said they’d serve children before the man of the house.
The initial tweet has scored over 744,500 views since it was shared.
When make dinner you serving yo kids first or daddy first?…. Obviously kids get served before step daddy I’m talm bout in a real house hold….what do you think?
— blueface (@bluefacebleedem) October 9, 2023
It’s only black women saying the kids get served first… if my dad got his plate first I’d be cool with it but if it’s just my mom BF over or some ima be pressured up fasho
— blueface (@bluefacebleedem) October 9, 2023
In the replies, online users had mixed opinions.
Some argued that traditionally and biblically, a husband is supposed to be served by his wife before she plates up the kids’ food. One user who shared that view highlighted that Blueface hadn’t put a ring on either of his two baby mamas’ fingers.
A real household is a man that is Married to his wife. You haven’t earned the privilege or respect of being served first, you aren’t married. A real household doesn’t include a Daddy who went and had another son he abandon.
— Momma (@logic10pts) October 9, 2023
The king of the castle gets served first.
— Replynomics (@replynomics) October 9, 2023
If you go by Gods Devine order, It’s the HUSBAND (key word) then the kids …… HUSBAND- he is the head and I don’t have any problems being led if my HUSBAND is a good man and a man of faith and stands on it!
— Michelle Marshall (@mbroady24) October 10, 2023
The man suppose to get served first. Both my grandmother taught me that. When my family was together I made all of our plates. Gave my bd his first then our two kids I usually ate last because I like to make sure everyone good. The kids never waited long everything was prepared
— Lunaamour (@shadaiasims) October 10, 2023
Others firmly asserted that children should be served first because… obviously… they’re children.
People with that point of view claimed any real man would prefer his kids got their meals first than after he and his ego were served.
They get served before any daddy… step main , side daddy whoever
— IG:sandy__hill (@__smokkahontas) October 9, 2023
Why should it even be a discussion? A REAL man would care less and expect a woman to serve the kids first honestly! Also, a REAL household, the food would be on the table and everyone eat together!! When a man feels this way he has to attempt to prove he’s a man, A LION DON’T…
— Tricia Claywell (@triciaclaywell) October 9, 2023
I feel like kids should eat first they are kids 🤷🏽♀️
— Mo😝 (@Flxwerchxldd) October 9, 2023
As a man why are you eating before your kids
— IG:sandy__hill (@__smokkahontas) October 9, 2023
Perhaps most importantly, others pointed out that the conversation of who gets served first is meritless and futile.
Bruhh pic.twitter.com/k7rbNBeoyL
— Undisputable Djemzy (@Djemzykado) October 9, 2023
Lol log out for me bro
— Silo like pillow with an S (@Silo4477) October 9, 2023
Does it really matter smh 🤦♀️
— Kiraa Wells (@KiraaWells) October 9, 2023
Go rest
— ⚓ (@Geraldgzus) October 9, 2023
Technically 🤔 the table is supposed to bet set for the family to eat together. It shouldn’t be no dad eats before the kids or vice versa. We all eat at the same time because dinner is served. Questions like this one expose why the homes are broken (remove ego w/ the home).
— TheFocus (@Focus_Driven1) October 9, 2023
Blueface, 26, shares a young son and daughter with Jaidyn Alexis, 25. The “Baby Momma Drama” rapper also has a newborn son with Chrisean Rock, 23. The Crazy In Love co-stars welcomed their baby boy in early September.
In other tweets, Blueface said his plate should be made first because he’s a “king.” He also argued that serving the children first “must be a cultural thing” Black women did since Jaidyn, who is reportedly Mexican, white and Asian, didn’t play about his plate.
“Jaidyn must be the last real woman left of this generation… too many women tryna DICtate things without a dic to take,” the rapper claimed.
Make my plate first on sY
— blueface (@bluefacebleedem) October 9, 2023
Ima king 🤴
— blueface (@bluefacebleedem) October 9, 2023
Must be a cultural thing Jaidyn don’t play bout my plate 😂
— blueface (@bluefacebleedem) October 9, 2023
Somebody said I need to grow up I’m 26 with 2 kids Im grown as hell I ain’t changing none but my draws
— blueface (@bluefacebleedem) October 9, 2023
In July, Blueface went viral after he problematically asked his 6-year-old son Javaughn Porter if he was gay because he looked for food in the pantry instead of paying attention to naked and barely clothed strippers present in the home.
When the child responded that he wasn’t gay, the rapper troublesomely rewarded his son with a high five. At the time, Javaughn’s mother, Jaidyn, and other children were also at the house. Blueface posted the chaotic and problematic scene on his Instagram Stories and received tons of online backlash.
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